We all like to complain. It’s just human nature to do it (at least it seems that way). Sometimes when we complain, we want ideas to help solve our problems but more times than not, we want a sympathetic ear and encouragement that we are “right” and the other person is “wrong.” Since the two […]

Have you ever put your foot in your mouth? No–not literally… We mean, have you ever said or done something that you would rather take back as soon as it came out–but since there’s no instant rewind button, you couldn’t? Have you ever tried to make some changes for the better in yourself and in

Here’s a great communication question that many people struggle with…” Sometimes, I just want to keep the peace, not rock the boat and just let things get better or blow over. I don’t want to argue, fight and stay mad all the time like I was in my previous relationship. Is this a good thing?”We

A couple of weeks ago, we went to the movies and right before the actual movie started, there was a 30 second commercial on the screen reminding us that “Silence is golden.” While this is helpful advice for a movie theater, we don’t think it works very well when it comes to communicating in relationships.The

Just about every love relationship has some little irritating tendencies that both people resolve to put up with. It may be tensions over money or perhaps one person has a jealousy habit which strains the relationship. No matter what it is for you, it’s possible that you and your mate avoid the issue or ignore

Here’s something else we’ve discovered about creating a greater connection in your relationship and life that we want to share with you… One of the ways to create and keep spark is allowing yourself–as well as the other person–to be real, honest, and vulnerable.This may sound like a no-brainer but it seems that for many

Many of us grew up being read what are known as “tall tales.” These are stories that are sometimes based on a bit of history that get spun into exaggerated yarns that are adventurous and exciting. Kids’ eyes get wide as they picture a character like Paul Bunyan, the giant lumberjack, with his huge blue

What if ……you know you can do a better job of communicating and connecting with your partner (or someone else in your life) and you just don’t know where or how to start?Most of us feel that way at some time in our relationships and lives. Sometimes it’s a one-time challenge and other times you’ve

How do you keep the lines of communication open when something has happened to destroy trust in a marriage or relationship? The simple answer is that it’s pretty hard to do! If you’re human and you’ve been lied to or cheated on–your tendency is to probably shut yourself off from that person so you won’t