Dr. Frank Gunzburg Baltimore, MD At this point, you should have some fairly solid ideas about how you can become transparent and rebuild the trust in your relationship. If you institute the strategies above, trust will blossom, and warmth and love will come back into your relationship.In order to reinforce this process, there are 10 […]
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Once both of you have started coming to terms with the emotions that have come up because of the cheating and extramarital affair, you will need to begin communicating about and exploring rebuilding your relationship. This is often difficult and the truth is that it isn’t always easy. But there is a way you can
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Taking trips down memory lane can do amazing things for your relationship. Think about how good it makes you feel when you bring out those old recordings of the music you listened to when you first fell in love.What a special way to celebrate your love, reconnect to a special time and to re- energize
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One of Jamey’s worst nightmares just came true. This morning, after another of her husband’s all-night “emergency” work sessions at the office, Jamey received a phone call from a trusted friend who saw Jamey’s husband, Tom, and a young woman kissing and holding hands at a diner eating breakfast. This information literally took Jamey’s breath
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Dr. Frank Gunzburg Baltimore MarylandIn a way, you have been behaving like a person addicted to a drug. When a person is addicted to drugs, the drug gives, or gave, the person wonderful feelings. (That’s why someone gets addicted in the first place.) Similarly, the affair gave you wonderful feelings at some point; that’s why
Sometimes relationship wisdom can come in the most unusual forms and ways.When you think about brilliant relationship insights, you probably don’t think about the late “Flip Wilson” but maybe…just maybe “Flip” was more knowledgeable about matters of the heart than anyone previously thought and here’s why…If you aren’t familiar with Flip Wilson… He was a
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Have you ever wanted to change or improve your love relationship in some way but your partner seems to drag his or her feet about making any changes or even acknowledging that there is a problem to begin with? This can be quite frustrating. After all, the proverbial “two-way street” is what being in a
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Want to spice up your love life and simply have more fun doing it?Try acting on some of the fantasies that the two of you might have. Now, not all fantasies have to be acted on. It might be just as much fun to talk about your fantasies but sometimes you might want to experiment
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by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach Recent statistics suggest that 40% of women (and that number is increasing) and 60% of men at one point indulge in extramarital affairs. Put those numbers together and it is estimated that 80% of the marriages will have one spouse at one point or another involved in marital
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Movie spies like James Bond or Agent 99 from the “Get Smart” film make finding out the truth behind a mystery seem intriguingThey creep around corners listening in on conversations, hack computers for the names of crime kingpins and do it all looking suave and sleek.In your real life love relationship, there is nothing suave,
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“We had a small wedding with just immediate family and our 2 best friends attending. We had the wedding in our own back yard; the chairs for our guests were set up in a circle/horseshoe with our altar and minister at the “top” of the circle. When our musician started playing, Ken and I walked
What if you’re in a committed relationship or marriage and your “soul mate” shows up? Talk about an uncomfortable and potentially dangerous situation! You either go crazy trying to deny to everyone that the attraction is happening or you dip your toe (or whole body) into cheating and infidelity. Here’s what one person asked and
by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach One kind of extramarital affair revolves around sexual addiction. The partner involved in the affair, plain and simple, has a difficult time saying “NO.” He/she may want to, but feels compelled to say “yes.” People can’t say no? Well, I believe we all have the capacity, at some
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It’s often been said that it’s the little things in life that make all the difference. No where is this truer than when it comes to keeping your relationship alive, growing and vibrant.Romance can be one of those things that keeps a relationship fresh and exciting. We all have different ideas of what “romance” and
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Trust is often taken for granted when it comes to intimate relationships. We trust– or don’t trust– that the agreements we’ve made with one another will be kept.These may include staying faithful to one another, continuing to deepen your connection, or “being there” for each other no matter what among other possible agreements… But when
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